I think it worked! I'm going to have to test it a bit and maybe try a smaller bow, but the Bow Scarf concept works!
One end, there is a puffy bow and, on the other, there is a notch for the bow to fit through. The scarf gets wrapped around your neck and the two ends are connected to create the bow effect.
I'm so excited it worked! Now, to come up with a paten so I can remember how I made it.